Update, she would not tell me who was saying these things to her, so I said I cannot make you tell me, and that I was sorry to be so upset, but it was frustrating to have someone talking lies about your wife and your wife will not let you put a stop to it.
I told her I will drop it alltogether now. And she has slowly slipped back into my wife again. Going to couples golf tonight should be fun.
Only thing that bothers me is that she does not say I love you to me. She says it back to me, but would really like to hear her say it to me unsolicited. I do not think she was ever a big I love you type of person, as her actions then as now show me the love for me, the touches and hugs and kisses that are unsolicited. What do you all think about this and how I am feeling about it.
