AF - Like Puppy, I really dont know what to say at this point that hasn't been beaten to death before.
This is a sick addiction. Why are you addicted to being her doormat? Why do you honestly believe you dont DESERVE better? This is what you should be FOCUSING on. Im talking from experience because I didnt think I deserved any better either until I got help and realized I had my own self-esteem issues to work on. Why do you need a pet project in your life? Why do you need to SAVE her? I have so many girlfriends that are always asking why they are dating these dirtbags that they are trying to FIX or SAVE? I tell them to look within to find that answer, along with reading "Getting the Love you want" by Hendrix.
I understand that you really THINK you LOVE her. We all get that. But someday you will realize you were in love with the women you WANTED her to be NOT who she really is. Unfortunately, I have had the same revelation. I was married to a SOCIOPATH that was NOT capable of giving or RECEIVING the same LOVE that I offered. It sucks. It hurts like HELL! But you have to ACCEPT the REALITY of the situation. She has cheated on you and your daughter numerous times. She is STILL LYING to your FACE. The writing is on the wall. I would love to see you guys work it out and be a happy family again. I would have loved for things to have worked out with my EX. Everyone want s the Disney ending. But it takes 2 ppl to make a M and she is NOT willing or most likely, NOT capable of doing the WORK.
I dont think she's ready at this point to accept Hooper's terms. I think if you follow Gucci's advice for the next 6 mons. then you will know WHERE she is REALLY at and then you will have the clarity to KNOW if she is what you want.
