Good then. Stay busy and think about other things. It's very hard to do some days, but if you are having the blahs, do something different....if you're watching tv, get the blahs, get up and go for a walk. Go to the mall. It's amazing how fast that can work. I used to not think so and just "try to deal" but now I change my environment or call someone, do something else.
Avoid the R talk for now.
Be the guy every chick wants to be with. Including her. Only positive changes for you though. She only gets to benefit from them. She isn't the driving force....know what I mean?