As she's leaving, she grabs me and says: I want to come home. I thought to myself, is that a question or does she think she can just come home anytime she feels like it? I didn't say anything and she left.
Thoughts on this interaction?
"Well, I have been doing some thinking and here is what I have decided. You have been right. It won't work. I can't believe that I have been so stupid, but I now know that I am no longer interested to be with a person who is wishy washy. I have also been thinking about what you said a week or so ago about dating and I think you were right about that too. I think we should both date around and see other people. I believe that would be the best for both of us. There is nothing more to talk about because we both know this just isn't working. Anyway, I have to get going so I am going and will talk to you later." (and then start socially interacting with the opposite sex)
Then start divorce proceedings. Hold the line. Make her come to you. Keep saying the same things. "it won't work. You were right, we should both date. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't give me their all. I don't know how I feel anymore and I need space. etc. etc. ...
Study up on what a WAW says to the BS and say those types of things to her. What she does and says to you are the things that will work on her.
Be happy, be confident and have the time of your life. Go out more. Be unavailable a lot. Don't return phone calls. Don't answer her phone calls. Make her mad..etc. etc.
That's it. Let her think and believe and FEEL that you are over her and are no longer interested. Wise men do NOT share their love or their wife with another man. Successful and confident men never chase or pursue a woman like her. They grit their teeth and move on and show her that being with a woman who can't act and prove that they want to be with you will not be tolerated. They are willing to put the relationship on the line and take the chance that it is over . These are the men that not only get the woman to come back, but usually don't lose them in the first place. PERIOD.
