BUT every night wife still goes to her room and me to mine. What my problem is now is when I have been going out "GALing" I have been looking at and checking out Other ladies...I have been having second thoughts if it is all worth it. I hope we turn the corner soon. My mind is willing but my body is weak.
Doc, you need to tell her this. I know you have told her things in the past, but maybe it's time to remind her. Write her a letter again, if that is your most comfortable way of communcating. She needs to know how dangerously close she is to "losing" you. Let her know that this not a demand or a threat, just honesty.
I wish my H had been honest with me and let me know there was a problem before it got so out of hand. I may not be in the middle of divorce now if he had. Show your wife my post if you would like.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
