Sorry to hear that. Is there a possibility of things working out? Or are you continuing to have faith that things will work out?
well as I alluded to a few posts back which your reply was based off of, I mentioned that hse had thrown in the towel once again. This tends to be the pattern that she has all along displayed. I just wouldn't have any idea if she is coming or going. She is the epitome of an emotional talker with seemingly zero interest or ability (not sure which) at editing in the least what rolls off her tongue.
Over the course of this year definite strides were made in our R ..surely from my POV, but perhaps only from my POV. Beginning with the New Years wondrous surprise declaration on her part that she was prepared and willing to step up and begin renovating a new R with me for which the words 're-building our M' & ' I know that I am meant to be with you' were included.
During both my vacation weeks, one in late January and the other in mid June we were together for the majority of the week. In the June vaca period I had the incredible happening of my W selecting off the movie store shelf, Fireproof . Guess it was just a cruel joke of sorts.
This spring she was doing amazingly well at totally reforming her diet and excerise habits. Those kinds of things had in short duration happened many times before but this time was noticeably different as it had seemed to have reached the stage of habit formation (which as I just had refreshed from Wifey's thread is 3 weeks ..thx Kjo). SHe was really coming around. Her countenance changed, attitude, confidence, smile, optimism. SHe was just plain healthier. This was all before heading in to the surgeon for her nip/tuck thingamajig. And the other major thing which would throw a wrench or at least place a very heavy extra burden on her was having to return to work after being on leave for about 5 months. She has now been back to work for nearly two months. And she is still trying (I wouldn't know how hard cuz we haven't lived under the same roof for the longest time)to reaclimate herself to the "real world" and be able to make the necessary accomodation to stay on a path of healthy living. From what I have been witness to, this is not going very well at all.
And who knows where things are at with her and her ...aaee hmm ..co-worker.
