Just to add a quick note, just spoke with D who said H was bewildered that I had gone out last night to the movies, asked if I had gone to the movies and what time I would be home, D replied, she didn't know. She said it was funny the look on his face, he had the dinner I had left, sat on the couch for 1/2 and hour and then was in bed by 9.30pm which he never does. She said she felt glad that he seemed to be so shattered that I was not there and proud that I hadn't sat at home waiting for him. I don't plan on getting too excited but will keep going with my GAL.
There is so much info on this site and it is great to read that I am not alone and it isn't my fault all of what is happening.
That is so cool. I am proud of you. Don't be predictable.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001