Even post partum depression wouldn't explain this. Her concern would be the pregnancy and her child, why would her depression lead her to divorce you right after having your child?
I haven’t read the other posts given on the stitch, just this thread. I don’t know anymore than the rest of you. However, I was a young woman who suffered from post partum depression and I left my H. It was just for a week, and my parents talked me into going back to him, (I was only 19), but I was very depressed. There was no OM involved or anything other than I was extremely unhappy and my hormones were messed up after having the baby. There were other things that certainly didn’t help the stitch, but that was the biggest part of it. That was a long time ago.
We may find out later that there was OM involved here, but I only wanted to mention that I do believe there are other reasons for women walking away from a H and she doesn’t have to be involved in an A. she could just be miserable and want out of the R.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!