Originally Posted By: K4D
My W called and told me tonight that our van is going to cost more to fix than it is worth, so she may trade it in for another vehicle.

Then she told me that she may need me to help her out financially for a month.

Kevin


I am so sorry to hear that W. I have to think about your request.

Wait at least 48 hours to answer. Don't answer calls, texts or emails for 48 hours. You have been busy, with AA, with C, with C for the girls. (You have, haven't you?) Been giving it thought.

Decide if you really want to help. Not because you think it will make her come back to you or see you as the nice guy.

Ask yourself how in the heck she is going to trade in the car, get a new one, and then make the payments. Oh, that's right. She asked you for financial help.

Be careful, Kevin.

Last edited by The Wifey; 08/07/09 02:59 AM. Reason: Added more info

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