You know what she paid for the car. Will adding that to the household bills create a problem when/if she returns? A penalty for breaking the lease? What other bills has she created? Something to think about...you could still find yourself liable for the bills she has created...even more so if she returns home. Be careful.
Yeah, I thought about that one already. If she comes home(which I don't believe), we will maintain seperate bank accounts and a joint one for joint bills. She has a job and can pay for her car and if she has to pay a penalty for breaking the lease, then so be it. I'm sacraficed enough and refuse to pay those bills. Believe me, the hair stood up on the back of my neck when she told me she bought a new car especially since she constantly complains about having very little money.
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Tell her, give her a date, (do not back down this time, if you do accept this is your new way of life, forever) if not go see a lawyer before she is so far in debt you get nothing to help raise your daughter.
I hear you and agree. I have an appointment next week with a lawyer. I want to see what she has to say. She is supposed to be the best military divorce lawyer in town. I was hoping I didn't have to do this but oh well. I am tired of being alone...
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
