That kind of frusturated me. Every time I want to put some kind of faith into my W, something else happens to make me lose it.
I also found my W owes $2,500 in rent as of today. She hasn't paid since early June and that was only a quarter payment for the month of June. Why isn't she managing her money better? I guess the track record continues.
Right now, Kevin, you should not have faith in your W. You should have faith in you and only you. What could, might, maybe might happen with your wife requires you to have faith, strength, patience, and self-relience.
Simply put, the WA is in a fog. She doesn't know up from down right now. She could be working her way back to you or totally done. That is reality. It is what it is.
I know it isn't what you want to hear, but it is true. Face it, have a good cry if you have to and then work on Kevin.
A person that gets that far behind in rent is not ready for you to put faith in them yet. TBD, to be determined.
DO NOT talk to family about this. Intel does nothing for you and certainly can come back to bite you in the ars down the road. Understand?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.