And I'm trying to help you, Ashley. You don't have to do anything TONITE, or even necessarily tomorrow. Regroup, eat a pint of ice cream, down a bottle of wine -- whatever you need to do to pamper yourself a little. For 24 hours. But then get back up and figure out what you're going to do about this.
I'm sorry, I'm not big on the "oh, you poor dear" types of advice. Those don't help you.
You've got something going for you in that your husband's behavior seems to be entirely predictable. So take a day or two and figure out what you're going to say, and what you're going to do, the next time he does EXACTLY what you KNOW he is going to do.
