Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Tell me Ashley, what were his consequences for the second and third times he said/did this to you? What have been his repercussions so far?

Although it feels like it was ages ago, this latest little game H is playing began on Monday this week. That is when I got the text that he would focus on us and stop talking to her. Remember that? And I doubted he really meant it. Then comes last night (the fight) when I leave and come home hours later and H says he has decided to work on our M (if I am still willing to - so he says) and he will stop all contact. I gave him the boundaries, we talked for a long time and I thought we were, perhaps, making progress. I did not try to snoop at all today, figuring he will come to me to let me know the contact has ceased. And wham....here I sit.