He is lnot seeing an IC on his own but the MC that we have has said he may do some seperate C with us at times. I have went once on my own and I think because of that, the MC said that he wanted to talk to my H 'about a few things'. He didn't go into detail with me but I assume it was about some of the stuff that I had told him during our appointment.
I think that my H is being open and honest in the sessions. When we first started, he could repeat word for word some of the things that the C had said. That told me he was paying attention. It doesn't seem like he remembers it 2 weeks from the appointment though and he is back to his old stuff again.
Tonight, we got onthe subject of his 401K. Bad move, but it happened. I found out that he had stopped the money from his paycheck going into his 401K. He never talked to me about it and that upset me. He said it was his money and I had no right to it. I then said that the D was still pending and that there was an injuction that stated he could not move, sell, or distroy personal marital assets. This of course made him mad.
I ended up saying that I still felt like he did not treat me like an equal in this M, said bye, and hung up. I have not heard from him yet.
Paridise lost agian??? Or never really found???
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
