Wife came up while I was typing so I stopped my post.

Just to finish up, her friend is married, close to the same age, and has 2 kids. She is pro marriage and thinks my wife is going crazy. The friend's husband is a workaholic though so I think she kind of likes my wife hanging out with her so much. The friend does tell W that she is creating her own problem and needs to wake up. Not sure if it's helping or not.

I have read DR and am about 1/2 way through DB.

It's nice to find others that 'get it.' My frienda and most of my family tell me to just move on. Thankfully I have a cousin (female) who has been through this. She has been an amazing source for insight and support.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.