Rays of hope - thaw approaching?

[mac-ct]

Eff it - REALLY want to text "friend"

"Believe that the whole world does not revolve round you or swings to your string pulling"

What a cow!

Mac!

[Serenity13]

But you won't send that text because you are detached from the sitch

You are getting your own life and doing things for Mac and no one else right?

[mac-ct]

Yeah right Serenity.

Just feels so PASSIVE.

I know it isn't but it sure feels like it.

You 'reccon any of this is sinking in without direct contact.

YES I know "it's about Mac" but you know what my aim is - same as yours.

Mac on his second Hairy Arse and Coke

AND racked up some FABULOUS 80's music.

[Serenity13]

I am a huge sucker for 80's music!

Yes it may feel passive and you do know it is about you, however I know your objective and it is indeed the same as mine...

As for it sinking in....

I don't know to be honest - That is something I wrestle with myself - We have to go on faith that it is indeed sinking in otherwise what are we doing?

Keep Your Faith my friend...That is what gets me through this

[mac-ct]

Done deal Serenity.

Overwhelming faith in my W and Mac.

Would still love some pro advice from ex WAW on the situation (see above if YOU are reading this and can shed some light).

It's certainly stirred up a hornets nest. GOOD.

Mac

[Serenity13]

Perfect...

I will look for the advice as well because I could use some

[mac-ct]

Guys and Gals you have no idea what a great night we had!

After go-between said that "friend" said no one would turn up. And after getting up to 7:00pm on my own - was feeling VERY down. Maybe "she" was right.

And then one turned up and then four more than then two more and ... the place was full.

We had a GREAT night. What made it all the more perfect was that one of the visitors got this from "friend" ....

"Hi hope you are enjoying the party at ken. Say hi to merl. Didn't think you would choose sides but at least we know now. Enjoy safe drive both of you. "

Does she think this is a game? Sides? Screw her. And the horse she rode in on.

There are no "sides". Just one "team" that she doesn't belong to.

J - the person that got this - texted back - "Not taking sides. Enjoying ourselves.... etc" and a few other bits and bobs. J is NOT impressed with "friend".

M - our best friend hugged me later and said she was pleased that I was handling this so well. Very impressed. And it would be over soon.

You have no idea how I wanted to text back to "f" and tell her &%&^%&^$ and (*&&%$. And I didn't.

Wa a bit disappointed that my in-laws didn't turn up but....

And now it's 12:35 in the morning. Bars a mess and I'm off to bed.

Think that was a great night. No "steering" from my side. Things just happened.


Wobbly Mac

[mac-ct]

Guys - a combination of the BIGGEST 180, not rising to the bait and not replying to what was a blatant attempt at getting my goat up - made my night. How did this happen? By listening to you lot, reading the threads and having the utmost faith in my W.

Notice it wasn't W that got p1ss3d off with me - it was "f".

Ahhh life is good fore those that see.

Mac

[kara]

Sounds like you had a great time, Mac. Good 4 U!

[Gardener]

Mac,

Guys - a combination of the BIGGEST 180, not rising to the bait and not replying to what was a blatant attempt at getting my goat up - made my night. How did this happen? By listening to you lot, reading the threads and having the utmost faith in my W. Mac

Good for you.
How's your head this mornin'?
Glad you had a great party (even though my invitation must've gotten lost in the mail).
Thanks for checkin' up on me at my dormant thread. I took a few days off.