Listen, I know you know that it is best not to act when you are angry and not to make a decision based on emotion.
That said, this sucks, all of it, doesnt it?
In spite of that, I continue to try to learn that the things I cannot change are other people, places, and circumstances. The only things I can change are my attitudes, reactions and action toward the people, places and circumstances in my life.
Take a little time to deal with your emotions. Remember how admirably you have handled all this.
A friend of mine told me to trust in the universe. I am going to give it a try - wanna come?