For a case like this two months is just getting warmed up.
Six would be a start, but not much of one. If (and that's really a small if) anything good is going to happen involving him, it is probably at least a year off. He is going to have to get through a lot of resentment, and right now everything bad in his life is your fault. (To him, not reality.) With a male ego, it is going to take a good long time if he chooses to let that go.
And of course, we know that you have a little work to do on yourself. This time apart is a gift. Let it do its work.
