If that was a firm boundary, then do as you said....go dark on her. If you break the silence (because she contacted you), tell her that you don't intend to be in an open marriage and have nothing further to say to her. Most add, "until you are ready to work on us" or some thing like that. I personally don't like that because it says, "I'm still here when you are done with OM" and I think they should be of the understanding that they lost you. Don't panic....go out. Have some fun. Try to get this out of your head. It's not a small thing to sweat, but seriously, what can you do about it? Not much, so let it go and try to forge ahead with your life.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
