Another chance to shine and show her a different Jimbo at Starbucks or something....
or
A cold, uncomfortable, standoffish "get the f*ck out of my life" meeting at the lawyers office.
Which seed do you want to plant?
I know you're right, T. And I know that I'm just disheartened that my expectations (which I should never have had in the first place) keep being trounced time and time again.
I don't HAVE to be cold, uncomfortable, standoffish "get the f*ck out of my life" at the lawyers office. I could just as easily go in that office and show her the positive Jimbo I've always shown her. But within 60 days of my signing that Separation Agreement, she will have to walk into that office to get her money anyway, because within 60 days is in the terms of the agreement, and I'm sure as hell not handing it over to her without her signing a receipt for it.
Originally Posted By: trapt
Call me crazy, if it involved me, I would be there.
If you're crazy, then I am too, because I thought about it. But, again, would it really make any difference? I will be D'ed by force whether I'm there or not. What is the rationale? Who am I impressing by being there?
Originally Posted By: trapt
Think about this for a second. Hasn't it always been this way?
Maybe so, but it sure doesn't feel very nice.
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo