The 2 women that invited me are just friends. One is a former coworker. I went and watched them play. I'm a little worried about the fact that SIL was there and that she might tell my W something that was not true as we are merely friends and nothing more. They know where I stand on my M.
Kev - Who cares what she thinks?? A I actually think it would be great if she got the wrong impression. Maybe slap her down a notch or two. Stop worrying about her, and stop trying to figure out what she's thinking. You can't control her. You control you. But the thing is, you're not controlling you. In a way, you're letting her control you. Stop it. Please. Listen, we've all been where you are. That's why we're here trying to help you. And we all did this. That's why I know you can also. Stop mentioning her.
Start living for you. Not for you AND her. It's you and the kids. Just Do It.
Strength and Honor.
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
