Thinking of you, lovely lady. I know it must be excruciatingly painful now, but I am excited that you have such a beautiful, bright future to look forward to. You are a sparkling, lovely, physically stunning woman. You're young, healthy, have a supportive family and beautiful children. All will work out just fine for you.
Your stbx, on the other hand, will be dealing with the mess he created for many, many moons. (I'm having fun with all the dirty, filthy disgusting names I am calling him in my head.)
Sending you all my love and friendship, R
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence