Gucci brought up a very important point here that I notice is overlooked in the discussions of Walk Away Wives and the loss of attraction your spouses may feel for you:
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
" did I wipe my butt right this morning or should I do a 180 on that"
Do not undermined the importance of this. This woman you are so desperately trying to reconnect with, understand better and make love to has been washing your undies everyday for years. The last thing that will make her sexually attracted to you is a skid mark running down your underpants. God knows how many good marriages have gone to ruin because of that. You can read as many marriage related and divorce busting books you can, go to marriage counselling, independent counselling, rub her feet, buy her flowers, do 180's, GAL but if you fail to wipe your butt correctly your marriage IS doomed. period.
Strength, Confidence, Respect and a Clean A$$.
Do not under estimate the importance of these principals when trying to "get out of the friend zone."
Steve McQueen.
From DAM to CAM.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.