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The only way C can do that is to stop letting her blame him by cutting her off when she goes down that path. It's immature and hurtful and she needs to stop doing it.


That's the point she didn't blame him according to CIPA. The advice is geared to what CIPA can do.


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Once she realizes it's not all C's fault then maybe she can realize how IRRATIONAL and IMMATURE she has and continue's to be.

Who is the focus on there? What can you do make someone think the way you want them to?


So not validating on a BIG concession in this sitch is productive how?


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.