Cry???? What kind of a man (person) cries in front of their inlaws, their ex spouse and best friend after living a lie for 3 years. After lieing to everyone's face...after travelling with OW and spending quality time that his family was craving!!!! Crying about what exactly??? About getting caught? About being exposed? I think I am earning a doctorate in WAS syndrome. I am willing to bet dollars to donuts that in the last three years his attempts at reconcilliation were directly related to the "troubles" he was having with OW. I am willing to bet that now that he has been exposed, he will be making up with her (maybe already done). What a sad excuse for a man....an empty shell...that is what HE is....not you! Keep your chin up and look ahead....you are guilty of nothing other than trusting the man you married. Get him to signoff on the financial stuff while his eyes are still full of tears.....do not wait....he deserves to be taken to the cleaners!!!!!