I know I did all of the wrong things also so now I need to back off. But I haven't heard anything from him since the beginning of May. That is when he moved from his parents to his own apartment and changed his cell number.
At the hearing I don't know if it sank in or not but I did tell him how much our D loves and misses him. At the end of the hearing as he was walking out he did say he would contact her. I just hope he does.
I have one big mess on my hands also but I'm trusting in God that he will heal my husband's depression and anger and bring him back home. My H can afford to go through with the D but I can't. He hasn't made any more moves so I'm just letting it go and hopefully not have to have anymore hearings and maybe he will calm down by then. I just don't get why he was so angry at me, I think he thinks that in May I turned our D on him which I would never ever do and he should know that from our 13yrs. together. She is the one that told her C that she was concerned about him and she is only 12. I didn't even know half of the stuff that was in the report, that was between her and her C. I just hope I got through to him that she does love, miss, and need him in her life. And that he felt good about that part. He also told my lawyer that he doesn't go to our D's counseling anymore because I threw my soda at him, which is another one of his lies. I did do it and I know it was wrong! It wasn't in front of our D or anything though. He just kept pushing my buttons by telling me everything wrong with me and kept knocking me down until I cried unbelievably and just got up and told him to stop and threw the soda on him. But he did attend the next session so that is where the lie is and I'm sure that is what he told his parent's and lawyer. But he is without a lawyer now, I think she dropped him because of all of the lies and not attending C and things like that, which were written in the C report.
Hi Jon,
How are things with you? I wish I could find someone on here near me to go out to eat with or get together with so there is someone that really understands what we are going through. Jon, I'm counting on your words as far as my H coming to his senses and also that God will help him! Jon, do you think it is too late since the hearing went so badly? Or maybe that is what we needed to get things out about the custody hearing he wasn't in there so only his step-mother knows what was said and I don't even want to know what she relayed to my H. He didn't even go in. I hope he knows that I do want our D in his life and he clears his head and knows that now. I guess he thought that I didn't want him in her life. I don't know. Sorry for going on and on. I'm just so confused. Then he claims he didn't receive our D's card and letter and that he didn't know about her graduation. Then in the next breath he says about my girlfriend calling his parent's house for the dress. And told me I should have called. I can't call there, they don't care about anyone in our household. They would just hang up, they are the ones pushing divorce and I'm going to call there.
Then Jon, he even thinks that you can look someone's cell number up on the internet. I told him that you can't you can only do a reverse check on a number but I don't really know if I got anything through to him at all. I did stay calm and not yell or anything like he did.
