oh, to clarify. One friend who is visiting is a girlfriend of hers for over 10 years. She is a mutual friend of ours, and her husband and i are friends. She would most likely oppose divorce on biblical grounds, as well as emotional consequences with the family, and that fact that I am healthier as a dad and husband.

Another friend is a man, who does not seem to be gay. I have watched them interact, and it seems that he is just a friend who helps out around there sometimes. He helps my wife and her sister too. When we were camping, just my family, we ( my wife) asked him to bring some food to the campground as we did not have breakfast food, so he did, and he brought me a hot chocolate and a mug that he bought from a mini market, when he was getting coffe for my wife and himself.

Sometimes people can just be helpful.
I hope this is the case. He's about 8 years younger than my W. And other than being helpful, I dont see a whole lot in common.
And I was there for an extended weekend, and saw him everyday.
They really did not act close, maybe like siblings. But I dont know.

anyway, she lets me meet her friends, when i am there, but she really does not have many friends there. So the ones she has, she might want to keep to herself.


M/30s WAW/30s
4 children
S 1 yr
LS 8 months
OM / just a friend 1 1/2 YR
D 1 month