So H just emailed me. He's going to drop the kids and the car off tonight. OW's going to follow him in his car. (That way I won't have to take him to the lot). I emailed back: That's fine as long as she doesn't come onto my property. Thanks!!! Well??? Bad, ok, or inbetween??? Also if the skanky ho does come onto my property what can or should I do??? Karen