Billclay,

Not sure of the answer. Could be she is having second thoughts, or then again it could be that she wants out, but doesn't want to see you hurt too bad. It could be something else entirely. Regardless of her reasons for how she's acting, I think you are handling this great and suggest you continue on your current course. Make sure you show her that you aren't crushed. Make sure she doesn't see you angry with her leaving. And make sure she sees that you can be happy without her.

One question: Is there a chance she's cheating? Why the sudden bomb droppage?


You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer