Pup, thanks for the words, but in all honesty, I am already there. While I was hoping it would be negative that would have surprised me more than the positive result did. It is depressing today, and I'm not fully to the point of accepting it's just sex, I'm close. And yes, I have known from the beginning it's the EA that's most deadly to a M. This was an EA that is now PA too. I think the biggest thing like you said is the lying, deceit, and disrespect.
