I also think VERY few people ever get fully detached.
Puppy
I can't agree more with you Puppy. Full detachment is the promised land. How many of us ever hit the finish line??
I also don't think it's a sign of weakness, rather it's about how seriously you took your commitment.
But it also speaks to Gucci's point that we are not the best judge of our spouse. As soon as you realize that, then maybe full detachment is more attainable.
Strength and Honor.
Mules
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.