well, maybe, but on her side, she has lost friends to her sister, and to her sicko perverted dad (at the time). She does not know many people in that town. mainly her sis and her guy friend who I have met quite a bit. And he might be a problem, but he acts more like a younger brother who like s to b helpful, and who does not know many people in that town either.
Anyway, she probably does not want any of her new friends there to take my side. She probably gets that from her friend who is visiting her there, yet this friend is agood friend to the both of us.So my W's friend probably is on my side, but compassionate on hers. I think that her friend opposes divorce, and sees how healthy I am becoming, and maybe my W's friend will be a benefit for me.
either way, it is wierd, and i think not pushing the issue is fine. And looking for where i can 180 and go a little distant or whatever it is called on here...dark(?) And yes Pdad a romantic comedy is fitting. just not fun in real life as you say.
Sorry you filed, pdad, hope that does not come down to my W and I. what is the latest with you and W? Are stats are very similar! I live in Gtown.
M/30s WAW/30s 4 children S 1 yr LS 8 months OM / just a friend 1 1/2 YR D 1 month
