Heaven knows its awful. I kind of look at the need for sexual fullfillment as being the make or break need in marriage. If marriages got letter grades, then the need for sexual fullfillment is worth 80% of the overall grade. If my wife meets ALL of my other needs but fails on sexual fullfillment, she still gets an "F" because the need for sexual fullfillment IS THE ONE NEED THAT MUST BE MET. My other needs are NOT this important to me. I want to be "Lovers" with my wife and NOTHING less. To be "Lovers" absolutely REQUIRES a GREAT DESIRE for sex, nothing less.
