What I love about the folks on this forum is the flexibility to grow. We all arrive with intense heartache, bewilderment, confusion. Over time we all grow and develop incredibly regardless of the direction our marriages take.
Challenges exist throughout life... not just in divorce. Starting over in the world of dating is daunting. A date isn't just a date.. it's working around children's schedules, visitation, having an ex in the background. It's lots of stuff in an arena you never imagined yourself entering.
I'm glad you post because it helps me learn.. learn what to expect, how to grow, how to let go.. and know when to listen to that little voice, be aware of when it's time to reevaluate.
This whole growing episode with your girlfriend is a huge learning experience for all of you. And the fact you were able to be honest in a way the respected who you are along with her and her kids is marvelous.
Keep listening to your little voice and pay attention to when those flags keep popping up. Folks will love for who you are.. not because of your need to please.
