It's OK to come here and ask for advice. And you will get lots of advice. But the decision as to how to act with your wife is your own. If it works out, you get the benefits. If it's a dismal failure, you suffer the consequences. So when you take advice, be sure you are willing to accept its ramifications.
Pray for wisdom, discernment and the Holy Spirit to move in your wife. It helped me. (more advice geeesh )
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
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