Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Not a good night last night. H and I got into it again. I was very upset so I took S and left for a few hours. Ended up in Church praying. Arrived home and H says he is going to stop talking to OW (says he thought about what I said etc...). I informed him of the boundaries (i.e. I would need access to all phone records etc...) H not pleased, did not understand. I pointed out what our M was like BEFORE OW and how it was not a problem then. H did not have much more to say.

After that found a picture H posted on his FB page with an Eagles cheerleader (no, i was not snooping, it was for all to see). He wrote a comment to the effect of "Me and wife at Lincoln field. Told wife not to dress so provocatively. Jeez" I am thinking I am over-reacting because it upset me. Here I was at Church praying for our M, our family and for H while he's posting that.

I'm exhausted. I look and feel like I've been run over by a truck. Ugh.