I completely understand your pain and frustration being the HD spouse as I am in my R. Please know that there are HD women that suffer just as intently and in the same way as men do from the lack of sex in their R. We HD women are definately not a majority, I just want you to be aware that we do exist. We are miserable and suffer as our needs of all kinds are not being met, or even attempted to be met by some of our LD husbands.
Just because you have not personally met or have known one of us, that does not mean that we do not exist.
I understand that you are venting your frustration on this BBS as we all have. Please keep reading as it does help to have these friendly strangers give words of advice and wisdom. We really do care and try to help each other out with our situations.