He sounds a lot like Eeyore in his email. Sheesh.

Okay, he's trying to provoke you or make you feel bad with what he's written. It feels...manipulative. "I was getting close to meeting you..." is one of those, well, I was thinking about it, but now you've messed that up BS lines that the WAS tends to use when things don't go their way.

No response is best...let the crickets chirp. He's going to be expecting you to defend yourself or change your mind.

IF you happen to see him when he comes to pick up his stuff AND he says anything like that, your response needs to be something like, "I'm sorry you believe that, but the truth is I am just not willing to lie on your behalf." Switch topic.

Wow.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!