Yes. Ziplock bagged and stored with everything else I have. I'm not letting any of my cards go. I saw yesterday where someone had erased all their emails and I just shook my head.
I know this isn't easy, and I fought the concept when someone first said it to me, but try to wrap your head around "it's just sex." For some reason, for us guys, that's much harder to do, but for WOMEN, I'm tellin' ya, it's the EMOTIONAL attachment that means more to them.
Now, it could very well be that she has BOTH an EA and a PA going on here, but even if that's the case, what I'm saying is that there's really nothing new about getting this recent revelation. Your plan should still be the same.
At first, it was the sex that bothered me the most when I learned of my wife's affair. In time, it was the DECEIT that hurt me the most, and in time, it was the DISRESPECT of it all.
Pup, thanks for the words, but in all honesty, I am already there. While I was hoping it would be negative that would have surprised me more than the positive result did. It is depressing today, and I'm not fully to the point of accepting it's just sex, I'm close. And yes, I have known from the beginning it's the EA that's most deadly to a M. This was an EA that is now PA too. I think the biggest thing like you said is the lying, deceit, and disrespect.
