Sweet Maria, I've been thinking about you all night and praying for peace for you and your kids.
Hardball? No question! There is a phrase, "Pay to play". That's what this man has to do now. He played, now he has to pay. He's obviously a complete and total coward. He's definitely scum as a H. Thankfully he seems to be, at the very least, a competent father. I hope your kids will understand in time what has happened and how much you tried to save your M for their sakes. Honestly, the tension surrounding you and H wasn't healthy for them, but I understand the need to keep their family intact.
You are, as Tomato put it, a tower of strength. You shine in ways that so many rely on. I'm so proud of you and what you've accomplished through this ordeal. Think of the revelation of his A as the closure you needed to know that you have done all you could. 3 people don't belong in a M. Let her have his broken a$$!!! Sorry.....I'm completely pissed for you.
You know how to find me if you want to talk off the record. You have supporters all over the world who love you!!!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!