school for 8 months + wanting to find herself + needing financial security + M is not worth saving = the big D once graduation + new job happens. But I am trying not to be that cynical. I kind of approached it with her in that manner when i signed the loan papers and she said what was I talking about there is no grand plan. Just her trying to find herself and get some self esteem as she has 0 now. What are anyones thoughts?
Two thoughts. 1. Don't connect the dots like you did in your equation all the time. Wasted energy. 2. Why did you sign a loan for her to go back to school if she has one foot out of the door? I was in a similiar sitch and I was not going to support something that I thought was going to ruin my marriage/family. That is "Nice Guy" mentality to sign a loan, tough love means I will support your efforts when we both have a plan and are mutually in agreement.
Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
