Ironically I ran into my SIL last night at a softball game that I went to with 2 lady friends that were playing who said I should come to the game.
SIL asked how I was and proceeded to tell me that the reason MIL is against me is because my W keeps lying to her about me. Then she told me that my W is blaming me for the D being dismissed. I said how is that possible when I am not the one that filed? She said my W is telling everyone that I had the papers so W couldn't remember what the date was. I said that is not true. I said we both had copies of the papers that were signed and notorized. She has a copy and I have a copy. My SIL said she knows that and my W is lying about things.
That kind of frusturated me. Every time I want to put some kind of faith into my W, something else happens to make me lose it.
I also found my W owes $2,500 in rent as of today. She hasn't paid since early June and that was only a quarter payment for the month of June. Why isn't she managing her money better? I guess the track record continues.
Kevin
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...