I have done 180's and GALs and it has been noticed. When we were in MC, she said to the C that she noticed I had changed in areas that she had said bothered her, and that she was happy for them. She also comments on how much weight I have lost since I joined the gym.
My gal and 180s have changed me for me. I am happier with the person I have become through theses processes.
And if she senses that I want to ML, then she must be colder than I thought. She makes comments and asks things of me that could only elicit a sexual response. Asking me if I noticed some woman's large breasts, or asking me how her new bikini looks, or telling me how her friend is trying to get pregnant, and do I remember how often we did it trying to have our kids.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.