Divorce not busted 2

[FaithfulH]

Thanks, Orich! I understand your point. Perhaps I did not make mine clearly. I believe that you believe you are not pressuring your W. However, I would be surprised if your W did not "sense" your neediness. If you actually said to her the other night, "I guess I will go to bed since there's nothing else going on"...that is the kind of pressure I am talking about. After many years of marriage, most couples have plenty of non-verbal cues that they use to show their interest in ML...a look, a touch, a subtle phrase. I'm simply saying that...if it is in your head, you are probably showing it. You are far better getting your mind off of it on to more productive things for right now. I am not giving you a 2X4...simply my thoughts on how to help you.