You'll notice the beginning of this thread was a question, which I answered. If I am challenged, which I later was, I will respond. If someone engages me in an argument, I shouldn't be accused of being argumentative.

Trust that I do appreciate all the advice that is offered here. I struggle with this daily, even hourly. It is not a situation that I take lightly. The info I get here, even if I counter it, is taken to heart and filtered thru my current experience. This is something that should be struggled with.