I am looking for input. Always. What I was trying to get across is that you alluded to W sensing that I am wanting to ML, and I am trying to show that I am doing what I can to not have that happen.
I was explaining that the stress of doing that, for me, needs to be vented, so when I post about it, it is helping me. I was being specific about that only. Of course I want input. You posted that I was hurting myself by pressuring her with ML, and I replied with examples of how I don't think I am putting any pressure on her. Then I wanted to make the point that I feel better posting the feelings I have about it here, because I am in sympathetic company.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.