naej, I am the "other kind", the kind that needs to know to get it out of my system.
He called my BGF, an dtold her he will never live something like last night ever again. That I was so calm and focused and strong. He admired me and asked if I had taken any meds. Wrong move. She had him on the phone for 25 minutes hammering him, very nusty. He was crying hard.
Then my mom called him. Told him to leave us alone and go and never come back.
Then he called me. And I told him a few things... He cried again. I told him if he causes another tear to my kids I will have him beaten up, swore to him that if hurts them again he will pay. And I will make him pay. He cried again. K
I sent him my proposal for money. He better accept it. Playing hard ball now.