Divorce not busted 2

[Orich]

I never implied that I thought she was healed. I give her nothing but space. I never bring up R talk. She never gets any signal or implication from me that I want to ML. I try very hard to make sure she doesn't. I go to bed before or after her. I tell her she looks pretty (is that needy?) instead of "hot" or "sexy". Hell, I'm rarely in the same room with her for her to get those vibes from me anyhow. I am always playing with the kids when we are home, hardly implying I want to have sex then. I thought this forum was where we could come to vent those things with people who are in similar situations. Am I completely wrong here? Is complimenting her on her cake creation clingy? She does her party prepping, work she brought home, general other things while I do my Vespers or play a video game or something.