Today, I am going to cancel the gas card that my W has, and then tonight tell her she needs to cut it up, and then hand her her car insurance bill as well.
That seems so cold and disfunctional family thing to do when I add my emotions to the equation, but remove them, and I still think this is the right thing to do for me. In a sense I almost feel a small burden will be lifted when I do that.
Not a spite or response to what she said last night, but the bill just came yesterday, and I have been thinking about this for a couple weeks now, and believe it's time to do this.
I still don't know if this is good DB, but what I believe is right for me.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
