So then which is it? Love her and detach, but not be cold to her? That's what I thought I have been doing. We do things as a family, we watch TV together, I help her with carrying groceries in to the house, I run errands for the family. We talk, even share a laugh now and again. Or is it what Gucci said; no card on our anniversary, don't compliment her on a nice cake she created for the kids, and don't invite her to dinner. Are we not supposed to make ourselves attractive to the WAS? Try to reconnect? So, which is it? Seriously, tell me so I don't completely f**k this up anymore than I apparently already am.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
